What is there in the humanity that nurtured this tumor, we have to find the cause, like a good doctor who surgically and precisely works to remove the tumor and examine the causes that created the tumor.
The Japanese have a motto: Solve the problem, do not point the blame. Simple and very true.
Some develop ‘victim mentality’ they become bitter rather than better.
Hurt is hurt and failure is failure, no matter how it is packaged. How you respond to it makes all the difference in the world.
Be solution oriented. Helen Keller, when asked – What is worse than being blind ? Replied – “Being able to see but having no vison”
Family life: “We have quality time and watch T.V.!” That is not quality time. Quality time is an investment in others – in your family members.
MIR TAQI MIR :
Saraapa aarzu hone ne banda kar diay humko
Varna hum khudaa the, gar dil-e-bemuddaa hota.
Aey dost bohat shukriyah, ees khoolus-o-mohabbat ka
Hum ees qabiltoh naa they, par shukriyah ees eenayat ka.
It does not take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go. J.C.Watts.
Persian saying: aamdan (they came) nishastand (they sat)
Guftand (they talked) barkhastand (they departed) – but nothing was achieved.
There are at least 30,000 kinds of spiders. The female black widow spider is a killer date – literally.
Sometimes after mating with a mate, she will then kill him ! Black widows have poor vision, and it may be that the females mistakes the smaller male for just another insect in her web. So distract her, the male sometimes brings a gift of a nice juicy bug.
The translation of Gayatri mantra by Ashwin Sharma of Cahndigarh
Aum : the one supreme God
Bhur Bhuwah : Who is lord of this world and world beyond
Svah : Who exists (controls) by him own Omnipotence
Tat Savitur verenayam : Of that enlightened self (Noor) we make the choice to worship.
Bargo Devasya Dhimahi : Of that God we do the meditation in our mind.
Dhiyo younah Prachodayat : May He impel us towards noble thoughts (and deeds)